I have a story to tell.

" I have no idea, where else I can share this things that bugging my mind. 😣
Married is not only about couple themself. But (in Asia-mostly) they also "married" the family from both side. So, they will get along with all of them. In every "situation", formore, the family oriented people.

Ok,stop talking bout that. I had something bugging me earlier.
Hmm.. My mom-in law- suddenly (rather pushed me) to be Cashier in their "restaurant". This isnt happen yet. She said in running a restaurant, the cashier should be from family instead of other people outside the family tree. What I feel .. why me? This is because I'm the only housewife within her daughter in-laws.
Who stayed at home and taking care my childern and my own mother. I really dislike this situation. She is a determined person. She likes to push everyone to get her wants. She doesnt want people or even family neglect her opinions. She said herself that she has a big ego. (Fyi, I dont talk bad about her).

If I become their cashier, how bout my childern? Absolutely SHE WILL ANSWER, your childern will be take over by someone or IT CAN BE Arrange..just moved their school here.
How about cooking time for my mother? YOU CAN BRING all FOODS from here. Bla..bla.. bla.. I already imagine those situation. And I feel sick.🥴🥺😤
I said a BIG -NO already when she offered me, when we had dinner tonite.
The plan, she will cooked/ supervised the kitchen. The menu wont be that much. She said later, maybe provide only breakfast 2 menus. Then lunch, we 'll have rice with ayam Korma/ rendang / ayam kalio etc.

She convinced me that I'll be only at cashier, doing all the math and the change. 😰 she doesnt think bout my feeling. Leaving my kids alone. Then my mother, how?
Then I want to have my own breadstore at home while i'm waiting for my kiddo going home and then I picked up them.
How??how ??

She tends to make something "easier" and force on someone until that someone finally say agree with her. Very ridiculous. 😡 And I am Sorry, really SORRY I SAY NO!
Eventho, I only sit back behind cashier - and this activity that I dont like it a lot. Doing nothing. "Just wait and see". 🐷
I am so sad knowing this. My husband can not say NO to her mom. Literally. About everything. 👊😤 but he always respect me in good ways. ❤
Hffft.. ok I just leave this words here. I'm so clueless bout this idea.
When young entrepeneur starts their restaurant thru internet ( based on PREODER). This mom-in-law.. like to do in normally people do. Build a restaurant because everyone says her foods all delicious and that make her more confident to build one. She doesnt want to sell thru PreOrder sistem. She just want to cook in that amount for every food. And sell it on that day.
"The tiring part is just the same. When you cooks in partial kilos then in a bunch of kilos." She said.

Sorry. Its hard for me to accept it.
- no moving house because of cashier career.
- no moving school because of this things.

- even salary from the chasier."

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